Always the single friend.

Oh i am so excited that i’m writing this today.

I’m currently listening to pastor Kenny’s teaching on wisdom for beginners. I love it and I pray that after reading my post every single person becomes wiser in Jesus name.

Always the single friend? Don’t worry i am here for you…

Has anyone told you how much fun relationship is? As if it’s not enough that you are single, all they keep doing is waving their romantic love all at your face.

You shut your eyes and all you see is the man that was supposed to be for you, you tend to regret every sweet moment you once shared. You once thought single is bae, now it’s hard to stay all by yourself.

Love is what you want but not what you get. And that is all that your friends have, beautiful memories.

Now give me some minutes to talk to you.

Enjoy your singleness!

The best moment of your life is now, yes! The moment you find yourself single again, enjoy each and every moment of it.

1. Single moments are moment for growth.

2. To be a better person.

3. Moments to deepen your relationship with God.

4. Single moments gives you the opportunity to fix yourself.

5. Single moment are moments to engage your mind and visualize your future.

Enjoy your singleness!

The reasons it didn’t work out the first time wont’t be found in another relationship, you can only discover the answers in your quite place. In my little life I have discovered that most people don’t like being by themselves. They don’t even know how to spend time alone.

Oh sweetheart you won’t find yourself in the crowd, you will discover the better you when you are alone.

It’s okay to have all your friends in a relationship, it’s fine. It’s okay that you are still single my darling. But what is not right is what you do while you are single….

Be the woman or man that prays, pray and intercede for your friends that are already engaged in a relationship. Be happy for them!

Respect relationships but don’t worship it. Don’t spend your whole time thinking about relationships that you forget about “bettering” yourself. It’s okay to once in a while think about it. But don’t create a world of fantasy around your singleness. Amen?

Read books instead – grow!

Study, gain knowledge, seek wisdom. Don’t get distracted. Don’t get carried away building castles you can’t live in. Guard your heart.

Don’t live in your past hurts and memories. Life is too precious to not forgive. Forget everyone that has hurt you. A failed relationship is better than a failed marriage. When you give people the privilege of breaking your heart they go along with a piece of you. They change who you are.

Don’t lock your heart away, don’t shut the doors. It’s okay to build walls around your heart but please create a door at the right time. The person for you won’t break in (he is not a thief) the person for you will give you a reason to open the locked doors.

Love is beautiful….

I am not talking to the sisters alone, it’s just that in the world we live now. We have more broken women than men. Don’t argue! 😯

above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Proverbs 4 vs 23

Three categories of single people:

1. The ones that get so lonely and with lot of peer pressure end up with the wrong person.

Sounds funny, but we are talking about reality here.

It hurts so much to see people I care about loving the wrong person, I know Mr Right doesn’t exist but that doesn’t mean you should settle for Mr close enough…

choose your partner in prayers, guard your heart!

2. The ones that will loose the right people:

If you don’t prepare now that you are single, you would still make the same mistake you made in your last relationship.

It is so sad that we let the people that care about us go, don’t be the man or woman crying on someone else’s s happy day. Treasure what you have today.

3. People who have no regards for marriage:

I know it’s very common for at least every woman to dream of her wedding day. Whatever you think of you will attract, have positive thoughts. Don’t show your face in other peoples private lives, he’s not insecure you are just too close. Respect marriage.

Don’t go chasing after someone else’s man or woman. Find yours!

Love will find you (i have never read in my Bible that she that finds a husband, it has always been he that finds a woman).

Position yourself to be found. Work on yourself my dear, the man for you will come, he is going to find you.

Brothers please prepare yourself for that woman, remember it is not good for a man to stay alone…

Selah!

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