Relationship is like a new wine,you can’t put it in an old wine skin.
You can’t love alone, it takes two to tangle.
A 2016 love story…
For all the excuses you will give in the world, you choose the wrong reason cause she was ready to give the world for you.
He chased her because his life depends on her presence,long before he met her he emptied himself to the wrong things. Lost in the midst of temptation and tribulations.
she hates the chase but he didn’t stop. It was love at first sight,he was going to get her attention no matter the mask,he kept chasing till he outran her. She stopped, she looked back, he seemed like it. Tall,broad, handsome. He was without six packs but he still managed to get her attention..
He has his ways with words,first class in the sweet boys association of African,everything he said made her grin from ear to ear.
He didn’t ask for her number,his attitude wowed her”at least he is not desperate “she thought with a big smile.
After that night,he asked one or two about her,she was a worker at a church down town. Good since she knows the lord. He wore his attire to suit her taste,a working class woman with the right man in a black suit,white shirt,golden cufflinks. A nice shorts and an expensive pair of shoe.
He seem to do well on his own,run a small business here and there. So it will be easy to win her over.
He drove straight to her church,her friends gathered around to stare before the service began. It made him blush,now he has won all the attention,just one more and the service will be over for him.
Samson parked and walk into church,she stood well adorned,he could perceive her aura from afar. All he needed was divine confirmation from God. She greeted him and held her hands to him,he smiled and pecked on it gently. She felt like a baby in his hand,soft and tender.
“Oh Lord I have found the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh “you exclaimed before taking a seat.
No brother what you found is chemistry.
The mighty winds blew away the sermon,after service they held hands and walked out of church.
” Linda won’t you introduce us”her friends called out clearing their throat.
“Um he is….”.
” am Samson and we are special friends.” She blushed.
They had lunch together. They both had a connection. They had a desire To spend more time together,to see each other often and to hang more. No mountains so high could tear them apart.
He took her to his place after lunch, showed off a little. His dad lives abroad, mum owned her own hospital and he the only child.
But then what is your purpose?
But she didn’t ask,she didn’t want to drive him away. No ,she can’t let the churchy girl in her out. Don’t ask too much questions, don’t scare him away.
“Before I met you I felt empty, I was lonely. thank God you came my way.” He whispers into her ears and she blush.
There is a problem he isn’t whole and he needs you to make him feel full.
But no,she ignored it. that little voice wants To spoil the romance,she smiles at him,fine white perfect dentition.
Don’t forget the way that God operate, you do not seek for a spouse,he present a spouse to you.
He drove her back home,his eyes glued to her thick lips. he smiles and squeeze her hands. “Let’s call it a day” she struggled to say ignoring the kick and fireworks bursting in her belly.
“Alright darling,its a good night then.”
She took one bold step and moved”Linda “he called out. She turned to look around but his warm lips crashed on hers. ” um strawberry” the feeling was heavenly,no time to think twice. It lasted for a bit,before they tore apart in search for air..
” good night” she ran inside, wrapped herself in her blanket. Welcome to fantasy,you just joined the cue.
“Guard your heart.”
“Don’t worry lord,I’ve got this.”
“Am fine Lord .”
Clouded with his thought she managed to say a short prayer before drifting away.
To be continued…
This keys help you find the right person but they can be used wrongly too.
Do not mistake chemistry for love,chemistry is just a feeling and you can have chemistry with more than one person.
Connection is a desire, a desire to know more,to have. Its a want.
You are not a filler,you don’t complete a person,you become a part,one that can’t be replaced no matter what.
If someone comes into your life and tells you they need you to make them whole,run! If they are not whole they will empty you too.
If they have a void in their heart they need to heal first. An empty person will drain you,they suck you up,completely.
A man with purpose is committed, find a man/woman you can thrive together,someone who can relate with you purpose.
Do not go into a relationship with someone who hasn’t find his or her purpose. Do not marry them,cause when people find their purpose it changes them,it changes their direction,their needs.
Before you find a spouse,make sure you find purpose.
Confirmation,you need to hear from God,you need to confirm from Abbah if this is it,if its the right place to be.
If he/she is from God.
To be continued…