This gate called woman,where does she belong?
So I thought so much and decided on something new, a collection of mindset I call it. last night I was meditating on the reasons a man should not be alone but before then I had like the man and woman reading this to know where the woman belong.
A woman’s place is not in the kitchen
A woman’s place is not in the bedroom
A woman’s place is not at work
It is not a woman’s place to compete with a man.
Why do what a man can do,when there are other things left undone?
A woman’s place is not behind her husband..
In front of a successful man is a better woman.
A woman’s place is with her husband.
And so God made man and put him in the garden.
Then made a woman and put her in the garden with the man.
A woman’s place is not in the garden(kitchen,bedroom,etcetera) but with the man in the garden(presence of God).
A woman’s place is in the garden with the man.
Then the lord said it is not good for the man to be alone, I will make a helper who is just right for him.
Oh yeah then God got into the business of making a helper, let me see, so he got some clay from the ground, molded the wild animals and all the birds of the sky,brought it to the man to see what he will call them and the man choose a name for all of them, oh how I imagined. The man was like oh you, you are so small and cute, I will call you cat, oh hey cute friend, you are a dog. Hail king of the jungle you are a lion.
He got to the last creation and called him, common buddy you are an elephant and that was it, it all ended, the whole naming finished. But the lord saw that there was no helper right for the man.
Guess what the lord did next?
He caused the Man to sleep.
My question is why did he cause the man to sleep while he was making the woman? Oh the lord didn’t want the man to know how he made the woman. 😁😂😂😂😁(this makes me so excited)
Now my daddy took out one of the man’s ribs and closed up the opening(i tell you God is the best surgeon). 😘😘😘made the woman from the ribs and brought her to the man.
“At last! (so he was waiting patiently and he was just forming macho and behaving as if he didn’t need anyone) “the man exclaimed. This one is bone from my bone, flesh from my flesh!she will be called woman because she is taking from the man. I tell you the truth ladies, this men have eyes. They know what is right for them, they know what is good. The man knows when he sees what he needs.
This is to bring you to the understanding that the woman was made from the man, she belongs to him,she is with him. By his sides she was made, to stay with him by his side. To summit to him!
Where is the woman’s place and what is her purpose?
There’s a connection between women and veils. Women, as the treasures that we are to be kept secure, hidden in a place where few people have access to, from being hidden in the Heavenly Father, to being protected by our earthly fathers, to being cherished by our husbands. The woman’s purpose is to make everything she touches better, we bring a touch of softness to everything, don’t be fooled by our delicate look, we are super strong. Think of the woman as the heart in a body. It’s delicate and is hidden, but it powers everything. A woman is a safe haven from the lashings of life, a shelter from the raging storms, a tower of peace and security and a bringer of contentment (SOS 8:10b, NIV). The purpose of a woman is to make everything better, make everything softer, make everything smoother. We may not have brute strength, but we get so much more done with influence. When we really understand who we were created to be and walk in the fullness and security of that place, people will fall over themselves to bring the world to just, just to see us smile. We are to dwell in the secret place, both of the Most High, and of our husbands hearts, so that we have access to heal the hurts that no one else can see or touch.
why do women struggle to find their place?
In such a time as this where every man seems to have an opinion about everything, and confidently voice it out especially on different platforms (social media especially), it is very ironic that many remain confused about their life’s pathways.
A majority of the victims are the women as history and society seems to cut out several definitions of her as she is tossed to and fro like a pendulum, trying to fit in adequately.
There are several reasons why the inability of the female to decipher her uniqueness and maximize her potential persists. But first, we will analyze the misconception about this beautiful creature.
1. A woman loves to learn and listen. Her teachability is of a great advantage when she listens to the right things. But this has been abused as rather than been taught and instructed according to God’s prescribed pattern that is unfailing, she becomes bullied by her tutors and trampled upon. Her strength being turned to weakness.
2. A woman desires to help and add value. The innate desire of a woman to change circumstances around her for good always becomes a disadvantage when she isn’t adequately supported and appreciated. An environment for her to harness her potentials is taken away, and her dreams become a threat. Unknowingly to many, a woman is selfless. Every kind of knowledge acquired is for the good of the people around her.
3. A woman has a high tolerance and forbearing nature. This is often confused for comfort. The fact that a woman doesn’t complain and nag shouldn’t be mistaken for comfort and peace. She isn’t meant to endure through life all the days of her existence.
4. A woman is the multiplier of seeds. Everything in life is a seed, give the woman a good seed and you reap abundant goodness. Give her otherwise and you reap its fruits.
An understanding of these factors presents the right and conducive environment for the female specie to thrive.
A woman inevitably struggles in an environment that consistently puts her down, and stifles life out of her.
The woman’s place .
I think the woman is a miracle on earth.
Everybody on earth came through a woman and that’s amazing on it’s own. Women show the possibility of birthing; not just biological birthing, birthing opportunities, birthing new ideas etc.
One of the reasons I’m not a feminist is I don’t believe a woman is to do what a man CAN do, I believe a woman was made to do everything a man CAN’T do.
The woman’s place can not be overemphasized. She’s a package of so many things. As such, she should be valued because to me, “she’s an endangered specie.”
why do women in a relationship feel timid?
If a woman feels timid in a relationship, it’s either because she has a very low self esteem or her man has made her feel at some point or the other that her opinions don’t matter.
Women are fragile and very easy to break. A man possesses the power to wreck a woman but that is only of she allows him.
Once you don’t feel important in your relationship, it’s time for you to leave.
I know there is a lot of questions to still answer but we will take it little by little.let’s call this part one of the woman’s place.
You can drop your question in the comment box.
Thank you dear Sharon takim,Dupe Sarah and Grace Christos .it’s an honor to have you here .