Calm down! I know with every happening you might be very broke, and you are pleading with me not to ask you to save for your wedding. Well, I have good news, I wasn’t about to ask you to do that but to create a relationship bank.
Let’s start today with a question then… how often do you have to forgive, trust and love all over again?
People are hard to maintain, tolerate and work with sometimes. And dating can be a bit stressful! just incase you are single, and wowing over every single couple crush you have. A lot goes on outside the cameras. That tall handsome man with six or even nine pacs has baggage’s she has to bear alone. She does things he dislikes but can’t tell the world.
Maybe he snores at night, but looks hot in the day. She slays well but can’t even say sorry when she offends him. Maybe he forgets to apologize for missing her calls the previous day, or she sleeps off before she gets to reply his sweet messages.
If love is a game, then it’s not about the game but the people. We are God imperfect lovers, we still have our flaws and we default once in a while.
Just like you need to save some money in the bank to avoid getting broke and for emergencies. You also needs to save certain virtues in your Relationship Bank. If you don’t have a relationship bank this blog post is for you. We all need a Relationship bank where we can save in love, trust, forgiveness, commitment, sacrifice, passion, faithfulness, Joy, happiness and more.
You need more than love and a cute husband or a good wife to keep a relationship. Relationships don’t magically flourish after a section in the photo studio.
CREATE A SAVINGS ACCOUNT
You’re definitely going to need one someday; days when you both come back from work tired and she still wants to be a baby. She want a foot rub when your feet are burning, one of the reasons Women live longer than men.
If you don’t learn to deposit from time to time into your relationship bank, you will try to make a withdrawal someday, and realize that it’s empty. And when your account is empty you become broke and frustrated. You’ll lose the ones you love because you two failed to save for rainy days.
Add your savings account to your Relationship Goals. Don’t just save money, save virtues! You have heard a hundred or even a thousand times that money can’t buy happiness. Well, you can create one in your relationship by building a good savings account!
And let Prayer be your Mastercard.