Work Out Your Relationship

Dear kingdom couples,

You won’t always be in love with each other if you don’t work things out. You won’t always wake up feeling them, there are days you’re going to struggle to talk to him, he is going to also have days where he feels like calling you by your name. Forget the baby, honey, darling, and all the fancy feelings; he is going to have days when he just wants to be alone and in his own space. I hope you’ll understand when the day eventually comes knocking on his door.

The first few months of any relationship is always smooth. It’s peaceful— you are so full of love and energy, young and vibrant. But as time goes on, as your relationship gets older, when it’s finally weaned from the milk— you will have to learn how to eat strong bones and enjoy it. You will have to work every day out.

How do you want to work it out?

Every weaned babe cries for milk; craves more of it, throws things around, and even refuses to taste the food all in an attempt to get back to its comfort zone. In the first few months, love happens inherently, you are all fond of each other. He is going to call in-between busy days, and he doesn’t forget to remind you to take a break and enjoy your lunchtime, he might even talk you through it all. She enjoys calling, she wants to still talk no matter how tired she is, she enjoys it when you fall asleep over the call and she finds everything sweet. She will still bite you and you will smile and ignore the pain. Your relationship is only a few weeks or months old baby and it’s okay to bite on the nipples.

Relationship without work is dead.

Work your relationship out…
When you no longer feel the need to drop the early morning calls, that’s when you should call the most, when you don’t feel like texting that person back that’s when you should do it. Relationships don’t work on the grounds of feelings alone, it should work even when you don’t feel it. Cause you are not going to wake up crazy about this person everyday of your life. We don’t even wake up feeling crazy about God all the time, but the Bible says to work out our salvation. Faith without work is dead!!!

Water the garden (relationship), dear praying wives, God won’t come down and do what you can do. Priestly men, God won’t do again what he has done for you. He has given you a good woman, please water the garden he has sown in your life.

• When you don’t feel like calling that’s when you should call.
• Whoever feels like calling should call first
• Whoever is going to bed first should call first
• If you are the early morning person do the morning prayer calls, pray for each other.
• Love is a sweet ride don’t hesitate to say hello.

Don’t wait for the other person to make the move first, he might just be very busy…

Enjoy the efforts you put in, enjoy the ride, it’s a journey into better days.

Love, Lima❤️