Make or Break: Sex can Make or Break your Relationship – Mike Todd

When you don’t understand what sexuality means to you, it will break or almost break the promises of God in your life.

Mike Todd

In his message, Make or Break? Pastor Mike Todd shared the wisdom of God on sex and how it either makes or breaks your relationship. He said,

The same fire that can make things (cook, boil, heat up) can burn things. The only difference is, the fire that can make things is in a container.

Pastor Mike Todd is my mentor in the area of love-relationship. I love how he talks about the elephant in the room (the gospel we refuse to share) and how he brings to light the matters of the secret place. So, today I’m going to share some part of his message that blessed me. This is only a minute part of the message on relationships. You can find the link to the rest of the messages at the end of this post, do listen to it!

Sex can make or break your relationship

The thing that is really making or breaking your relationship is on sexuality and the ideas that you have about sex.

God made sex, and we need to know that sex affects everybody. It affects how we act. It affects how we talk to people. It affects how we see people.

Make the word of God the standard of your life and how you are supposed to view sexuality!

1. Sex was God’s idea

The message many of us probably got from church was just to not have it. What happens if you already did? (Church folks have left behind unanswered questions on sex) but the truth and only the truth can set you free. The problem is, there are many people in church who won’t deal with the truth.

If you don’t get the truth, you can never be set free.

Mike Todd

“But ‘God made them male and female’ from the beginning of creation.”

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Mark 10:6 NLT

God made man, he knows our appetite and urges. He understands them.

“‘This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.’ Since they are no longer two but one,”

Mark 10:7-8 NLT

When you have sex with a person, you are supposed to be joined in three ways:

1. Emotionally through intimacy.
2. Physically through the action of sex.
3. Spiritually through covenant.

So, when you thought you were just having a one night stand, you were joined physically, emotionally and spiritually!

And when you join with anybody, it creates soul ties.

When you are doing something to feel a void, you are creating a burial to your future.

Mike Todd

Some of us are trying to figure out why our new relationship is not working, it’s because you are joined (through sex) to the last one.

There is no relationship that you will ever have that there won’t be strings attached.

Sex signifies marriage. When you have sex with a person you have consummated a marriage. How many people have you said I do to when you really didn’t?

This particular question got me thinking deep, sex is a mystery. Sex is Gods idea! So I said “the wedding isn’t the marriage.” When you come together: that is covenant!”

Potential relationships will go horrible when you enter into sexual relationship before you are ready.

Gods plan of one

The concept of one: one God. One man. One woman. One marriage. One sex partner. One flesh. One lifetime. One picture.

2. Sex has been perverted

Anything God said is good, the enemy came to pervert it.

“Don’t you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality,”

1 Corinthians 6:9 NLT

Be truthful and honest. Talk about what’s going on. God can’t bless who you pretend to be, he can only bless who you really are!!!

What you hide, he can’t transform!

Don’t fool yourself… some of us are fooling ourselves, thinking that we can still be hooking up believing God for our man of God.

Sex is good but sex has been perverted, it is the only sin that you sin against yourself.

When you don’t understand what sexuality means to you, it will break or almost break the promises of God in your life!

Mike Todd

“You say, “I am allowed to do anything”—but not everything is good for you. And even though “I am allowed to do anything,” I must not become a slave to anything.”

1 Corinthians 6:12 NLT

What are you a slave to? If you are a slave to sexual sin, sexual sin always brings friends. Sex changes your character! And if you don’t deal with it, it will pass to the next generation.

The same thing that can make you can burn you.

Mike Todd

Well, we have come to the end of today’s message review and because I want you to watch the video, get understanding, wisdom and for some of us deliverance I’m going to stop here.

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Love, Lima♥️