New International Version Ecclesiastes 5vs 13.

“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”

I have been doing a lot of post recently about women, I think it’s a little unfair to not teach about men.

So this is it, it’s not perfect. I am writing it as I receive, I hope you will be greatly enriched.

What kind of a man should leave his father and mother to be united to a wife?

I have seen most women drift into relationships without seating to count it cost, after the romantic rainbow disappears they come out 😞 disappointed and full of regret.

I hope we deal with it once and for all.

1. A hunter

2. A scavenger

3. A gardener

Who’s a hunter?

A hunter is a person who searches or seeks for games or animals for food.

For these hunters, life had much to do with big hunts rather than daily outings. Following such major undertakings, much of the meat was preserved for the winter.

This kind of man is more concerned with taming you,all he wants to do is restrain you. He goes out and looks for food ( a lady who is insecure, weak, has low self-esteem, ignorant , A lady who doesn’t know her worth. )_ Hunter A

This Kind of man has no purpose to his life, he has no idea what he’s looking for in life, this kind of man is not focus. So he goes out and look for a lady like him and tie her down to his will. They will both decay like plants.

During other parts of the year, hunting would take place as a form of practice or recreation as well as to enjoy fresh meat when possible. While many hunted to live, others (just like sportsmen of today) lived to hunt .

While many hunted to live, others lived to hunt… Hunter B

The type of man who lived to hunt is like a man who builds his house on Sand. He looks like he is confident,strong and bold. He is used to the game of destruction so he doesn’t look week or scared anymore but he is not rooted. This man is not in search of a weak woman or a woman with low self-esteem, no! He is seeking for a great woman, with walls (purpose, faith, hope, excellence, beauty, strength, principled, discipline.) guarding her. He finds her and destroys her walls, he eats her up bit by bit, piece by piece until she’s finished. He enjoys fresh meat!

Complex hunter gatherer civilizations could also obtain supplies of protein through relationships with other groups that allowed trade or access to other needed resources.

This other type of Hunter, when his done with her, He shares her. He exchanges the once bold woman with other men(hunters like himself). Trade and get access to other finished women.

This man called Hunter should not leave his father and mother to be united with any woman, until he becomes a man!

Hunters are intimidated by the prey they catch. _Fela Durotoye

The second type of man is a scavenger.

Who’s a scavenger?

scavenger. [skăv′ən-jər] An animal that feeds on dead organisms, especially a carnivorous animal that eats dead animals rather than or in addition to hunting live prey. Vultures, hyenas, and wolves are scavengers.

A scavenger of a man is looking for dead woman _ Fela Durotoye

A scavenger of a man is looking for a needy woman, a woman who can’t stay alone, a woman who can’t pay for her things, a woman who can’t live without a man. A woman who has no reason to live. He is not intimidated by her.

The gardener….

A garden sows, water and nourishes you. A gardener multiplies you. A gardener turns a woman with low self-esteem to a confident woman, a broken woman to a complete woman, a lost woman to a found wife. this type of man can leave his father and mother and be joined with a woman.

I like gardening — it’s a place where I find myself when I need to lose myself.
— Alice Sebold

Sow a seed in her, it will never die….

so ladies, wait till your gardener finds you,while you are waiting don’t forget to work on yourself, promote yourself, be productive! Be fertile…

Looking for a gardener?

Check his garden!